I would avoid them completely because in my head it was simple:
fat = weight gain.
I remember standing in my kitchen one day, picking up a bag of almonds… and then putting them back. I genuinely thought, “These will make me gain weight.”
So instead, I’d choose something “low-calorie”…Something that didn’t satisfy me…And, unsurprisingly, I’d end up grazing later anyway.
And the truth is — so many women still think this way.
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Why This Belief Is Still So Common
This came up again recently when my sister asked me for snack ideas. I suggested nuts, and straight away she said:
“No no… not nuts. I don’t want to gain weight.”
And it really hit me, this belief is still so deeply ingrained.
But it didn’t come from nowhere.
It came from years of:
Low-fat messaging
Calorie obsession
Diet culture telling us that fat leads to fat gain
The problem?
That approach didn’t work long-term.
Low-fat dieting often left people:
More hungry
More obsessed with food
Less able to stick to their plan
So not only was it ineffective, it wasn’t sustainable.
Gillian Scerri is a Health & Nutrition Coach and CBT Practitioner who specialises in diet, emotional eating, and stress-driven habits.
Her work centres on helping individuals understand why they overeat, crave certain foods, or struggle with consistency, so they can create lasting change, not just short-term results. By combining Cognitive Behavioural Therapy with practical nutrition and dietary strategies, Gillian helps clients regulate their emotions, stabilise their energy, and build healthier habits that actually stick.
She places a strong emphasis on the impact of food on mood, hormones, and overall mental wellbeing, helping clients move away from ultra-processed, addictive eating patterns and towards a way of eating that supports both physical and emotional health.
Her programmes integrate insights from neuroscience, behaviour change, gut health, and nutritional therapy, bridging the gap between what people eat and how they feel. Rather than relying on willpower or restrictive dieting, her approach focuses on addressing root causes and rewiring patterns at a deeper level.
Gillian’s work is deeply personal. After years of struggling with her own health, including digestive issues, fatigue, anxiety, depression, and thyroid issues, she was forced to confront the disconnect between her lifestyle and her wellbeing. Through this journey, she not only restored her health but developed a clear mission: to help others break free from the cycles that keep them stuck, exhausted, and disconnected from their bodies.
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