Don’t Be Quick To Judge

Published On: June 20, 2025By Tags: , , , ,

I wrote the poem below after witnessing someone judge another person a few days ago…

…simply because they couldn’t ‘see their disability’.

A reminder that so many carry invisible burdens: chronic pain, trauma, neurodiversity, exhaustion…

Not all struggles leave visible scars.

People are like icebergs.
So much remains hidden beneath the surface—
silent struggles, quiet dreams,
old wounds tucked beneath polite smiles.


You see only the tip—
the reaction, the mistake, the mood of the moment—
but you don’t see the sleepless nights,
the battles no one applauds,
the strength it takes just to stay afloat.


You are an iceberg too.
You carry entire seas beneath your calm.
You are stories and scars
that have shaped you.


So, keep this in mind…
Every iceberg has a history.
Everyone has a below.

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About the Author: Corine Maxwell

Hi, I'm Corine Maxwell, owner of ThrivingRobin® My journey into Life Coaching and Counselling skills has been shaped by both my personal and professional experiences. Now in my fifties, I have gained a better understanding of myself and others’ challenges through various roles, including working with children with additional needs and trauma. My background as a massage therapist and complementary therapist allows me to offer holistic support to clients and their families. As the mother of two young men, I am aware of the troubling statistics surrounding men's mental health and issues, and I am committed to making a difference. Contact Details Website Facebook Instagram LinkedIn

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